The Parent Book.
Therapist-written support for parents
Urgent help

For schoolsFree for school staff

The teachers’ shelf.

Your pastoral team reads the whole library, free, and sends the right chapter to the parent who needs it.

The Parent Book is a therapist-written library for parents, on things like a friendship that has ended, evenings that have stopped working, or a worry that has started to make decisions for a child. Schools often hear about these before anyone else. The teachers’ shelf lets your pastoral team send a parent a chapter on the thing she has just told them about.

There is no licence, no fee and no partnership to sign.

How it worksThree steps

Your pastoral team reads the library, free.

That means heads of year, form tutors, the school counsellor, or whoever else holds pastoral care. They see the whole library, and there are no accounts for the school to manage.

A staff member sends a chapter to the parent who needs it.

It is a link, pasted into an email the tutor was already writing. There is no portal and no training day, and nothing is asked of staff beyond the conversation they were having anyway.

The parent reads that chapter in full, free, without signing up.

At the end, a short note says the chapter comes from a library written by therapists, and how she can read the rest if she would like to. Whether she subscribes is up to her.

Sign in with your school address and use it today. There is nothing to arrange first.

Before you decideFor the head, the DSL and the bursar

The questions a head, a designated safeguarding lead or a bursar will ask, each answered on a page of its own.

Beyond the shelfWhen a school wants more

Evenings and briefings, led by the therapists who write it.

Some schools also want a therapist in the room. The therapists who write The Parent Book lead parent evenings on the subjects your families are dealing with, and brief pastoral staff at the start of a term. These are arranged term by term, at a day rate, with no annual commitment.

Every chapter closes with the same clinically maintained signposting block your DSL would want a parent to have, and nothing in the library replaces your school’s own procedures.

Talk to usFor the head, the deputy head and the DSL

If you would like to talk first.

About the shelf before anyone uses it, an evening for your parents, or a briefing for your staff. Leave your details and we will write back personally, or write to hello@theparentbook.com.

We reply personally, usually within two working days.

The Parent Book is written by qualified therapists registered with the British Association for Counselling and Psychotherapy BACP and the National Counselling and Psychotherapy Society NCPS.

If you are a parentThe library at your child’s school

If the library has helped you and you would like your child’s school to have it, introduce your school. It takes two minutes, and it costs the school nothing.

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